Someone Close

I can’t stand physical closeness. I do not share hugs, kisses or feel comfortable shaking hands. Why is that? You may wonder. I wonder the same. But mostly I wonder if it will change, if perhaps after so many years of avoiding touch I would end up accepting it instead.

Human relationships require a sort of closeness that involves physical touch. The more comfortable you are with that, the closer you will feel. It’s what we do when we are born, kept close to the hear

t of our mothers, warm and safe. Some researchers say hugs work as painkillers for people. Some say a twenty second hug builds trust. People end up wrapping their arms around their own chest when they’re alone and anxious.

It is a pretty beautiful thing in the end, closeness with a touch of safety.

Don't get too close.Stay Safe.